Thanks for your question and interest in ACES. This forum should be a great resource for you!
I’m seconding your request for the ACES Community to come up with some titles/resources they value!
While we can’t endorse any book or tool, I’ll kick it off by mentioning a couple that have come across my desk and you can see if they’re appropriate for your needs.
Chapters on ACES:
Colour Reproduction in Electronic Imaging Systems: Photography, Television, Cinematography http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/9781119021780.ch32/summary
The VES Handbook of Visual Effects: Industry Standard VFX Practices and Procedures
Here are some SMPTE resources:
The Academy Color Encoding System: Standards for Digital Image Interchange, Color Management and Long-Term Archiving http://ieeexplore.ieee.org/document/7479636/
ACES 1.0 Theory and Practice - Webcast
Color Grading with Color Management
This may be of Interest as a general background:
PS to the Community, we discourage overtly commercial posts so please recommend without 'selling'…thanks!